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Poly a Little Jealous

Friday, 13 November 2020 by BLLH
When I first heard of polyamory, it sounded absolutely incredible, but it also seemed like the relationship archetype that would only exist peacefully inside of a science fiction novel. It was hard to image a relationship with multiple people being enjoyable over a long period of time. I wouldn’t consider myself the jealous type, but
  • Published in Dates, Lessons and Advice, Polyamory
Tagged under: jealousy

Relationship Goals vs Relationship Growth

Thursday, 01 October 2020 by BLLH
I’m not sure when I had this revelation, but I know when I finally realized it, my outlook on dating completely changed. Let me paint a picture for you… You meet someone and the two of you hit it off. Things are going well and you decide to make things official. The relationship is great
  • Published in Dating and Relationships, Experiences, Lessons and Advice
Tagged under: goals, personal goals, relationship goals

It’s Too Early to be Completely Honest

Thursday, 01 October 2020 by BLLH
  Honesty. We all say we want it, but do we really want complete honesty all the time? I honestly doubt it, but that’s a discussion for another day. There is an unspoken truth in the dating world: It’s better to lie or keep certain things private when initially dating someone. I know, that’s a
  • Published in Dating and Relationships, Lessons and Advice
Tagged under: dating, early dating, honesty

Ladies, When He’s Upset, It’s Not About You…

Thursday, 01 October 2020 by BLLH
First, let me start by saying a controversial but true statement… MEN HAVE FEELINGS TOO I know I know, crazy right? I mean any man who shows emotion or let’s people know that something bothered him, should just man the fuck up right? I mean, only pussies and “beta men” let things affect them. Ah
  • Published in Dating and Relationships, Exes, Lessons and Advice
Tagged under: feelings, listen, men


How to Know You’re Ready for Marriage

Thursday, 01 October 2020 by BLLH
The pinnacle of relationships. The long sought after… forever. You’re not asking for much? Just… It could be so simple. But it’s not. The truth is, while a great number of us want to be married, I’m going to make the bold claim that most of us aren’t even remotely close to being ready for
  • Published in Dating and Relationships, Experiences, Lessons and Advice, Marriage
Tagged under: growth, marriage, wedding

What’s His F*** boy Score?

Thursday, 01 October 2020 by BLLH
Ladies, are you dating or talking to a guy and you’re not sure if he’s a fuckboy or not? Well, look no further. Go through this list and tally up his score, the answer will become clear. He drives a camaro, mustang, challenger, or charger – 10  He has a credit score less than 650
  • Published in Lessons and Advice
Tagged under: fboy, fuckboy, score

You Have to Impress Me Too, Ya Know

Thursday, 01 October 2020 by BLLH
Dating is funny sometimes. Although I wasn’t alive in previous generations, it’s still quite interesting to look at the contrasts between the courting of today and previous generations. I appreciate the number of women out here who are no longer impressed by the materialistic and genuinely look at a man’s character. There is a greater
  • Published in Lessons and Advice
Tagged under: impress, money

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